What Women Fantasize About When We Satisfy Ourselves

What Women Fantasize About When We Satisfy Ourselves ©iStock/Tassii

Every woman fantasizes about something different when she satisfies herself. In fact, the same woman might fantasize about something (or someone) new every time she does. It all depends on the day. Here are a few things that women commonly fantasize about when they satisfy themselves:

  1. Our boyfriends. Some of us will still do it to the thought of our boyfriend, even if we’ve been in a relationship for years. If we find him attractive, then his image is all we’ll need to orgasm.
  2. Our exes. It’s not that we’re still attracted to our ex, or that we want to get back together with him. Sometimes, it’s just easier to fantasize about something hot that happened in real life instead of conjuring up something fake.
  3. Celebrities. We all have soft spots for certain celebrities. Even though we know that we don’t have a chance with Chris Pratt, it won’t stop us from fantasizing about him.
  4. Fictional characters.Suggestive novels can be real turn ons. It doesn’t matter that the characters in the story are fake, because we’ll still satisfy ourselves while thinking about all of the hot things they’ve done.
  5. Our crushes. Our crush might not have a clue that we’re interested in him, but our laptop’s browser history sure knows it. We’ll scroll through his social media every night until we find sufficient material to pleasure ourselves with.
  6. Nothing at all. Some women don’t actually think when they’re pleasuring themselves. They just satisfy themselves and enjoy the feeling without imagining anything too hot.
  7. Other women. We don’t always fantasize about things we actually want to do. Some of us will think about what it would be like to sleep with another girl, even if it’s not actually on our agenda.
  8. The stranger we only saw for two seconds. If we see a hot stranger, we don’t have to know his name in order to pleasure ourselves over him. After all, his personality won’t help us reach the sweet spot.
  9. Online stars. Girls watch online stuff too, you know. If we don’t have anyone in “real life” to fantasize about, then we’ll resort to thinking about adult stars, since they’re so skilled in their area.
  10. Looking good. It feels hot to be considered hot. That’s why it can get us excited to think about turning men on by getting down on our knees for them.
Holly Riordan is a writer from Long Island, New York who has authored several science fiction and horror books. A graduate of Stony Brook University, she has spent nearly a decade writing for publications including Thought Catalog, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. You can find her on Instagram @hollyrio and Twitter @hollyyrio.
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