While women love to be showered with attention and affection during the “courting stage” of the relationship, men enjoy a bit of wooing as well. If you want to insert a little romance and win him over, here are some sweet messages to send him that he’ll really love.
- “You make me feel so safe, like I’m finally at home.” This is a sweet message that lets him know how much of a save haven he is for you, and if there’s anything men love, it’s feeling like they’re doing a good job in the protector role. Not only that, but telling him that you feel at home in his presence boosts his ego and will make him appreciate you even more. Don’t be surprised if he goes the extra mile next time just to make sure that you’ll always be so comfortable in his presence.
- “I can’t imagine loving anyone else but you.” It’s not enough that you send him a thoughtful message. You also have to give him assurance that he’s the only man that has your heart. While his isn’t something you want to send when you’re only in the initial stages of dating, it’s perfect for when you’re a bit further along. When you do know he wants to be exclusive, this sweet text message will surely make him fall in love with you.
- “I want you to know you can open up to me with whatever you’re going through–all the good and bad. You can always count on me.” Not only do men like it when you’re vulnerable with them, but they also appreciate the fact that they can lean on you when they’re having a hard time. A study has shown that compared to women, men find it more difficult to rely on someone for emotional support. They find it uncomfortable to open up about their feelings. Making the first move to actually get him to talk will let him know that you appreciate all sides of him, even when he is at his most vulnerable state. Not only is it sweet, but it’s also a sincere text message that will give him all the butterflies.
- “I don’t know what I did to deserve you but I’m so thankful.” Men love it when you make it known to them that you are lucky to have them in your life. A sweet message like this makes him feel special, as if you won the lottery by having him in your life. If your relationship is as strong as you think it is, it should come as no surprise that he feels the same.
- “I will still choose you in the next lifetime.” A sweet text message that lets him know you will choose him in everything is sure to hit the spot. It will get him thinking that you still have a lot of love reserved only for him. It will make it clear that you’ve caught major feelings for him and that your feelings are so strong, it’s even made you wax poetic!
More sweet text messages to send him
- “I miss you when we’re not together. I really can’t get enough of you.” While you should have your own life and feel comfortable with your own company, you know you’ve got it bad when being away from a guy for even a few hours is enough to have you pining for him like crazy. Letting him know just how much he’s on your mind when you’re not together is sure to make him feel loved and appreciated, not to mention wanted.
- “I love doing nothing with you.” Chances are, this guy is your favorite person to spend time with in the world and you shouldn’t be afraid to tell him that. Making it known to him that you’re just into him when you guys are sitting around on the couch watching TV as you are when you’re out on a romantic date together shows him he doesn’t have to do anything special to win you over.
- “Everything in my life has improved since I met you.” Yes, you had a complete, fulfilling life before you met him, but it’s like he’s heightened everything to the extreme and made all that was great even better. Telling him this will be a major boost to his ego and hit him right in the heart. Who wouldn’t want to hear his?
- “I fall in love with you more every day.” A sweet message telling him that you fall for him harder every day will give him the flattery and reassurance he unknowingly craves. Maybe he’s head over heels for you but struggles with insecurity because he doesn’t know if you’re on the same page. What better way to assure him that you are than by telling him straight up?
- “You make me feel strong and more alive. I never want this feeling to stop.” This will make him feel good knowing that your relationship brings out the best in you. After all, everyone wants to make their partner’s life a better place, so realizing that he inspires you and makes you feel good will make him feel good too. It’s one of the sweetest messages you could possibly send him.
