I’m not dying to find a boyfriend — I can totally survive without one. Dating is low on my list of priorities, but when I finally find a guy I like, I can’t help but go all in. So if I seem desperate, it’s only because I really like you.
- I’m honest when I want something real. I’m not going to pretend I don’t give AF about you, just to look cool. If I like you, then I’m going to be honest with you from the start. I don’t care if admitting how much I like you breaks some ridiculous dating rule, because I’m going to do it, anyway.
- Trying doesn’t make me desperate. Sending you the first text and rearranging my schedule to hang out with you doesn’t make me needy. It just makes me a good girlfriend. I won’t apologize for trying to fit someone important into my life.
- I want you to know I’m serious about you. If I stop giving you attention to try to play it cool, you might assume that I’ve lost interest in you. I don’t want that to happen, and I’m not a fan of mind games, which is why I’m going to talk to you as much as I can.
- I won’t let a good guy get away. It’s rare to find a man that’s actually worth my time and effort. If I like you, then I’m not going to let you get away easily. I’m going to keep texting you until I find out how you feel, even if that means I end up looking a little desperate.
- I refuse to torture myself. If I want to talk to you, I’m going to talk to you. I won’t make myself suffer by waiting for you to send the first text. That’s a waste of perfectly good flirting time.
- I deserve to know where I stand. I’m not asking you if we’re dating in order to be pushy. I genuinely want to know what’s going on, so I don’t get my heart broken. I just want to be on the same page as you, because modern dating can be incredibly confusing.
- I’m willing to lose my dignity for love. Sending a double text can be embarrassing, but I’m willing to try it if I really like you. It means I’m dying to talk to you, so you should be flattered.
- I don’t waste my time with player. I don’t give every man my full attention. Players won’t get a single response from me, no matter how many texts they send. That’s why you should appreciate the fact that I’m giving you the attention that they wish they could have.
- I only try hard when it matters. If it looks like I’m trying too hard, it’s not because I’m pretending to be someone I’m not. I just really want to impress you, because I really like you. So give me a break.
- Not everything is about you. Even if I’m crazy about you, you’re not the center of my universe. I dress for me, so if I look like a bombshell at a party you happen to be at, it has nothing to do with you. That’s just me.
